I even gave him and offered him money for the treatment, dragged him to doctor etc. He got the results they say he has to stop smoking,drinking,drugs, sleep properly, eat healthy food etc. But he says he doesnt give a ****.. he just wants that something really bad happens to him and he is over with his life..
he is so negative, pessimist and depressed person. I tried to get him to phsychologist etc, told his near mates etc but nothing is working because he himself is not willing to make an effort.
What should i do ?????? i feel really helpless.. and i just had a fight with him where i called him looser etc.. i know it was wrong but how can i make him change his minddddddddddddddd?
thx in advance
Sorry but you can't. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.. He probably loves all the attention around him. I suggest you draw back from all the attention and help giving and say well I can't help you you are on your own. Stand back and watch, it will be hard but it may be the kick up the rear he needs.
If i were you i would respect his decision and just go on with life like nothing bad is going to happen. things always get worse before they get better. if hes makes up his mind that he wants to die then let him don't try to change his mind make life as pleasant for him as possible. if things start looking up then he might make a decision to go on and live life to the fullest.
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