Why won't my motther show me my unlce and grandmas will I know I was in it?

I am the only son in our family which consists of me and 2 sisters. My uncle died 2 years ago and my grandma last year. My uncle won a lawsuit in 1998 for around 2 million dollars after a doctor accidentily killed his wife he was a hermit after that and didnt spend much. he also had a healthy pension from his job. I know if he had a willl I would have been in it. Some how My mother sold his house in 3 mo after he died it did not go into probate I figure. He took his lawsuit money in monthly payments. My mother wont tell us anything about a will or where the money went. Then Grandma died same scenario she had some money in the bank and her house sold for 500,000 dollars. She always says theres no money but she eats out 3 x a day and is always shopping. I was very close to grandma and uncle they would never have not left me anything we were very close. I just want to know what i can do. If she says theres no will, no money? If there was no wills wouldn't the everything go into probate? One more question the lawsuit money he took in payments would she still be receiving that?

I agree that you need to talk to a lawyer soon! And you should have been contacted if you were in the will - is all of your contact info up to date? Have you moved or changed numbers recently? Does your mom live with you and could she have answered a call that should have been for you?

And just out of curiosity, are you of age? In other words, are you legally independent - 18 years or older? If you're younger, your mother may be representing you and not want to tell you, in which case I would still consult with a lawyer.

there had to be a hearing date 15 days after the death but no longer than 30. So, that gives an idea of when this whole process stated. If you were in the will they should have sent you notices regarding the will, specially because it's a huge amount/s. There are somethings on there that are not very clear, like your mom selling the house.....Hmmmmm that sound a bit fishy, talk to an attorney even if it is late.

it is past time for you to hire a lawyer but tell her that is what you are going to do as it can cost a lot

If you were named in any of the wills you would have called to the reading of the will.